Be The Independent and Appreciative

From being a girl to a lady, I always be the independent one. I do not have a driving license, hence I do not count on anyone to bring me here and there. I choose to find my own way, or choose not to go 😂

But hardly deny. Father is the one who sacrifice a lot to bring me here and there without me requesting for that. Boyfriend seldom fetch me here and there, first because he is originally from Sabah, he is not familiar with the roads here. Secondly he is not the person who likes driving, thirdly he is not good at directions. LOL

I don't complain much because I used to that. Haha. But he is trying his best. Some girls may find this as a criteria to look for a bf though. Forget about it girls, not all guys have that responsibilities to fetch you okay? They are your bf, not your driver/ chaffeur. Be appreciative, look in to what they are good at, do not just focus on what they do not have in themselves. They are human too, they are not perfect. And you are not perfect also.

Yesterday I asked my man whether I can travel from klia2 to find him at his work place, and ask him to send me back to klia2 at night, can see that he is hesitating. Hmmm. I just miss him and wanted to see him. By looking at his face, I said never mind with a not so happy face of course. But he said it is dangerous to travel alone just to meet him. His reason is about my safety. Hmmmm. Same as what you are thinking, this is an excuse.

After all, I decided to go for a movie alone at Paradigm Mall (because there is direct bus from klia2 to Paradigm Mall). Not so dangerous at all though. Hahaha. I texted him  about my plan when I am preparing to go out. Immediately he said, later I fetch you when you arrive, wait for me to finish work, we go for movie together.

See! I am curious what makes him decided to do so instead of saying yes to me yesterday. I asked him whether I am independent girl. His answer is funny "Nope, you are selfish". I laughed it off because the answer is unexpected. He said I never think of my own safety. Lol. I asked why not he just say yes to my plan yesterday night and today morning he immediately agreed with that. He said no choice, you have decided to come, I can't stop you anymore.

Hahahahaha. At least for now I will not think that yesterday he gave me an excuse but he really worry about my safety. He is just being sweet and caring. I appreciate that a lot. All these can be seen through his daily actions, not only by him saying that. Oh ya, I thought I may need to take a taxi there, but he called and said I fetch you later once you arrive within my one hour break. Another extra point scored! Hahaha.

Girls, points can be scored in anytime anywhere okay. Do not pressure yourselves by saying your bf not loving you as much as you want. They did okay :) Enjoy every single moment.

And I have learnt a lesson, when bf said so, do not doubt it like what I did yesterday night. Appreciate everything that he does 🙆